Man Family
Feb/080
Man Family
Would you go against the will of your family for a man you intend to marry?
If the man (women in case you're a man) is from another culture/race/nationality and you intend to marry him because he is pious and shares your same set of beliefs.. and you feel yourself compatible with him and very comfortable in the idea of sharing your life with him and all the duties of marriage.. but your family does not approve on you marrying that man considering the culture differences and would rather have you married to one of your own.
This is what happed to me, and its real time experience, and you Must not ignore this (please)
Keep in mind.
You don't know the future, You don't know the man's heart, You don't know the man's family, the hurdles standing infront and many many things,,,,,You don't know.
Your family, they don't know the man, they don't know his family, they don't know the future of this marriage.
So it can be good and can be bad............the point here is.....You and Your family is not sure 100%, as we are human, we only can see it by our perception , guess work, or through checking certain things...like how that guy behave, how is his attitude , does he match with the aim that you have, etc etc......this is what you or your family can do being human.....and Nothing more...
there is NEVER BE 100% guarantee that this is actually true path for you...that can lead you to have successful life here and here after....
so what you should do.....
only thing that I did, and I will ask you the same....
ASK ALLAH TO HELP, ASK ALLAH THAT YOU ARE WEAK, IF THIS IS TRULY GOOD FOR YOU, FOR YOUR DEEN FOR YOUR AKHIRAH THEN BRING IT TO YOU AND MAKE IT EASY FOR YOU TO GET, AND THEN BLESS THIS RELATION WITH HIS MERCY...............AND IF THIS THING IS BAD FOR YOUR DEEN, FOR YOUR LIFE, AND FOR YOUR AKHIRAH, ASK ALLAH TO TAKE IT AWAY FROM YOU, AND KEEP YOU AWAY FROM THIS...AND BRING SOME BETTER TO YOU THAT IS GOOD FOR YOU...
its doa istakhara.....you will not do this ordinary way...do it with full intentions , ask this doa, from deep down of your heart......and make it a strong habit, and keep it repeating.......as if you talking with Allah.....and some time with tears.....
this is big big decision of life, and must not be without His approval.............there is none else who can give you the best....but ALLAH.
this is what happened with me....it was faaaaaar more strict rules in my family that you can't even imagine. my family was 100% against what i wished...i love my family tooo much...can't go against them....but i had a right wish for my deen to come true.........so there were sooo many barriers on the way......and HOW BEAUTIFULLY ALLAH SOLVED ALL FOR ME....ITS UNTIL NOW IS A BIG MIRACLE OF MY LIFE. like i tell you here only one thing in this event of my life....
it was January of that year (the year i got marriage) i was sleeping and got this dream. in that dream i hold the calendar in my hand, and i went to my belovedddd mom, and i asked her,,,,,"mom what is the date of my marriage"', my mom put the finger on the dates ...its was December's last 10 days.....almost 12 months later......
at that stage...it was impossible to think to have marriage in coming December as my elder sister was not yet married or even did no have any proposal, and no body was talking about my marriage.....
but it happened exactly what i got in dream..... its only due to intensively making doa isthara from my beloved Allah...with tears....Ya Allah if its good bring it to me, and make it easy for me...and if its bad, take it away from me...and i don't need it.
im telling some thing this personal only because of this verse in Quran.
093.011 But the bounty of the Lord - rehearse and proclaim!
Al-Qur'an, 093.011
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